With Valentine’s Day just around the corner and with those Fifty Shades of Grey trailers airing nonstop, the urge to get out of that sex rut is at fever pitch. Valentine’s Day is a time to celebrate love, relationships – and sex! While some couples may focus more on the romantic dinners and glasses of champagne, it’s important to remember that part of being in love is having great sessions between the sheets; with a condom! It seems natural to let things go on ‘that’day, lovemaking can get a little overboard. While we are there, the truth of the matter remains that in whatever instance health should be put on the lead. Condoms MUST be used.
Here are the stories men have when they have to cover up their willies, even worse; on a valentine’s day
Free/cheap condoms or nothing
If your man only relies on freebie condoms then he’s won’t be likely to run to the store and even less likely to care about his health. If he isn’t willing to dish out 4 or 5 bucks for a condom, you can protect yourself by keeping an intimacy kit or insert the good ole saying “No glove, no love” at the appropriate time.
Pleasure Seeker
The number one reason for men refusing to wrap their willies is that they say it doesn’t have the same pleasurable sensation as going bare. This may very well be a true for a lot of men, however that’s no excuse to skip wearing a condom. Brands like Durex Natural Feeling Lubricated Condoms and Trojan Bareskin offer you and your lover the protection you need without compromising pleasure.
They don’t fit_ he says
According to quora.com, 30 percent to 35 percent of men require a smaller than standard or more tailored-fit condom while half of men require a medium or standard condom. Medium-sized condoms are the most readily available and are found in most stores, handed out for free in clinics and passed out at universities. Only 15 percent to 20 percent of men require a larger condom, which means 80-85% of men do not actually need that glorified Magnum.
An interruption in the heat of the moment_ He thinks
Taking a few seconds to put on a condom won’t deflate the mood if you both are hot and heavy. Wearing a condom prevent an unwanted pregnancy it can prevent sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) from spreading. If your man cares about his health and yours, he’ll do whatever is necessary to make sure you both are having the safest sexual experience possible. (If he doesn’t care, should you really be sleeping with him?)
Mr Endowed.
A man will believe that because he is well-endowed that he can’t possibly wear a condom. It isn’t uncommon but it’s an excuse. If you and your partner just can’t keep your hands off each other Trojan Magnum XL, Trustex, and Atlas all provide larger sizes that are meant to comfortably fit your man’s deluxe package.
He won’t use a condom because his partner appears “clean.”
Just because someone appears clean does not mean there shouldn’t be a condom in the mix. STDs like HIV, HPV, chlamydia and herpes can go years without showing tell-tale signs. It’s never a good idea to assume someone doesn’t have a sexually transmitted disease based on looks alone.
He’s drunk and careless.
This is where you come in (if you’re the sober one). In these instances, be the responsible one and carry a trusty little friend in your purse just in case things heat up. If you yourself are intoxicated and do not have a condom, it’s probably best to refrain from having sex altogether to prevent having any regrets the next morning.
