Sometimes people tend to be confused by the feelings inside them. I received a message this morning ” Please help me, is it possible to hate your mother? ” I knew it was all about confusion of feelings when I read the message.
People who are part of our everyday life “carry” attitudes we do not like, attitudes which make us “mad and sick”… And each time we look at these people, a lot of hatred grow inside us, each time they try to say something ,we criticize them without even giving them the chance to speak, even if it is something we can benefit from, we don’t listen. Let me tell you – we don’t hate this kind of people, we hate their attitudes. So let us not allow what we feel inside confuse us. Attitudes can be corrected and after that you can actually see that you did not hate the person. Talk to that person and make them aware of what you don’t like about them, that you don’t like the way they do things. Sometimes you will be surprised to learn that the person is not even aware of that.
Each time you feel hatred towards the other person, re-think of what your feelings are really about. Ask yourself if you really hate that person or you hate their attitude. I assure you- most of the time, the answer will be ” I don’t like this and that ABOUT this person”, and know that it is the attitude of that person that you are bond to deal with not the person themselves . So there is a great difference between the person and their attitude.
By;
Nanie Peletang
