Reasons why we must empathize- Dimpho says!

It’s normal in this day and age for us to be a bit more selfish without even realizing it. We are constantly worried solely about our own problems, and think only about ourselves, but that implies taking a path that leads directly away from empathy. But if we could put ourselves in other’s shoes then we could consolidate what we want to gain from them with what they might be struggling with, that way then there is a mutual considerate platform and that enables growth and tolerance.

Most of the times the youth want to be felt sorry for and want or expect people to give them a plate full of silver platters. They tend to forget that the people that they want to gain something from them too one way or the other are suffering too. We must all pull together to gain what we want. But the most important thing to do is to keep ourselves in check that we are not stepping on others’ toes as we try to thrive in a world that is hectic to survive on. This where the lesson for today starts we must first of all empathize and remain considerate.

Empathy is a great trait to have and we should value it as such. When someone empathizes with us, we must know how to appreciate it.Can you ever imagine having a problem and that not even one single person can help you get through it? Imagine that your best friend has this big problem, and because you has never gone into a problem like that one you couldn’t help, first, this makes you a selfish person, a person in which people can’t count on. But what happen if it is you the person who has the problem?

Would you like help? Everyone loves to be listened and help by people, everyone loves to solve all your problems, sometimes it isn’t easy to solve them yourself, that’s why you look for some friend or family member to help you, but that person is going to put in your shoes and watch your problem from your point of view, so it will be easier for them to support you.