INFERTILITY SHOULD NOT MAKE YOU PART

Couples split up for lots of reasons; affairs, money, people not pulling their weight with the housework, conflicting opinions on the right way to load the dishwasher, the list goes on. But one of the most fundamental issues has to be The Children Question.

INFERTILITY

One of the most daunting issue couples suffer with is the issue of not having the ability to conceive. Children are seen as a huge achievement for couples and mostly those have been married. As of recent in Botswana we do not have a center that specifically addresses the issue of infertility but then again couples keep parting over the issue.

WHO IS TO BLAME

By virtue of being in a relationship together, everything then has to be done and taken simultaneously but that is never the case with an infertility case. Women are seen to be the most vulnerable group in regard to infertility and they suffer the most. They get more lashed than men do. They suffer the blame but what remains is you have to be in this together

WHAT NEXT THEN?

If you are being having victimized for being unable to give your lover kids it is no use staying in such unhealthy and painful relationship the only option left is to move on. But if he or she is supportive then find means of bringing a young one into the family. There is adoption, try it all out,also there are other methods although they may be expensive it is never an option brushed aside try it if you can.

WHAT TO KEEP IN MIND

What then is left for couples is to do it together, stick by your lovers side. Do not verbally abuse them and do not embarrass them in front of family and friends just support them.