Making The First Move- 10 Ways To Ask A Guy Out

Women have feelings too, just like men they fall in love. So the best way to let a man know how you feel is to ask him out, right? It might not be that easy, considering men can be immature, but it is doable and a lot of celebrities have done it. The following tips will help an average Motswana woman to find the guts to ask the man of her dreams out.

1. Invite Him On A Group Date.

There is no harm on inviting a guy on a group date. Make it a mixture of his friends and yours. That way, nobody is left out and it won’t be awkward. Who knows, maybe it’ll be a great time for you to meet his friends!

2. Buy Him A Drink.

Getting around to the ways on how to ask a guy out is hard – so why not start it with buying him a drink? Just approach the guy and tell the bartender that the next drink is on you! I promise, he’ll love the confidence and who knows, you could get a boyfriend out of the deal.

3. Keep It Casual.

You don’t need to break out the china or suggest an expensive restaurant for a first date. Why not keep it casual and just go to a bar or even hit the streets to walk around? The first date (the one you’re asking him out on of course), should be easy, breezy – beautiful!

4. Do Not Have A Friend Ask Him Out.

This is a huge no-no girls. Your friends are there for support, but this isn’t high school any longer. If you are interested in a guy, you’ll need to be the one to approach and ask him out, don’t send a girlfriend to do it.

5. Find A Common Ground.

When you are chatting up a guy, you want to drop little hints of what you like to do. Do you like to bowl? What about shop? How about draw? Find a common ground and I promise it’ll be way easier to ask the guy out!

6. Ask Him If He Has A Girlfriend.

When/if he says “no,” then ask him if he wants a girlfriend. If he says sure, ask him if he has anyone in mind. It should end with you asking him out.

7. Let Him Know You’re Interested.

You don’t have to tell him outright that you have a crush on him, but drop a few signs. When you’re nearing the end of a conversation with him, brush his hair or arm and say something like “you are such a sweet guy, stay this way and I might just fall for you!”

8. Have Touchy Feely Conversations.

Touch him when you’re talking to him, but don’t come on too strong. A girl who touches a guy a lot is either too comfortable with him, or extremely desperate. You’re neither. You’re a classy girl who knows when to touch and when to stand afar.

9. Watch A Movie Together.

The next time you’re with this guy you like, pretend to be a bit miffed and tell him about how badly you wanted to watch this particular movie with your friends, but they’re all too busy to go out this weekend. Tell him you’re annoyed and really bored. Unless he has a girlfriend, he’s probably going to say, “hey, why don’t we go together?.

10. Don’t Be Too Flirty.

This might make you appear desperate and cheap. Keep it simple and classy, a man will fall for a woman who is not too much. As much as you want him to notice you, just make sure you don’t cross the line of being clingy.