Roses are red, violets are blue and if he is too busy on valentine’s then the side chick is you! Unfortunately being a girl on the side is as horrible especially on Valentines day. No one wants to be classified as the side chick, and no matter how much you want to believe that you are the only woman, sometimes guys can be much trickier than you think. Men will go to all sorts of lengths to ensure that they can juggle as many girls as possible, without even considering his present relationship status Chances are you are one, but completely unaware of it. Here are the signs to watch out for this valentine.
Your significant other is picking fights already
He is just cold and unbearable during the week. Starts fights and is grumpy most of the time.
Your significant other will either be working late or travelling on this day
You will ask of the plans of the lovers’ day, but he will not be available. Either he will be working late or he will be travelling on work grounds.
Your significant other wants to be alone on Valentine’s Day
All of a sudden he is stressed out or you are the bad guy and he wants to be away from you and by himself on this day. Cause for alarm.
Your significant other claims valentine is for ‘sissies’
When he starts to trash talk the day but does not say much about what he has planned instead then you know you are a side chick.
Your significant other takes you to lunch on Valentine’s Day, not dinner
Your significant other has made time for you on the 14th. However, he only wants to have lunch. This is an attempt to satisfy you while he plans to have dinner with his main girl friend
Your significant other only buys you a cheap box of chocolate or teddy bear
You get gifts for V-Day. However, the gifts are those cheap boxes of chocolate and a teddy bear. V-Day gifts don’t have to be expensive, but they should have a little thought put into them.
Your significant other can’t be reached after 8 p.m. on Valentine’s Day
You talk or text your significant other for most of the day on V-Day. However, they are missing in action after 8 p.m. You receive a call or text from them the next day.
Your significant other feels “sick” on Valentine’s Day
You call your significant other on V-Day and he answers the phone with a scruffy and hoarse voice. He coughs and sounds as if he’s been stricken with the bubonic plague. That’s right, he’s sick on this special day and will be going to bed soon. There’s no way he’s physically able to take you on a date that night. Classic move!
Your significant other has never picked you up for a date. You guys only meet up for lunch or sex
Your significant other has never picked you up in his car. The only time you guys are together is to meet up for sex.
