Duma Boko, Botswana’s President-elect, is known for his powerful oratory and uncompromising political stance, but behind the public persona lies a tapestry of stories and traits that only those closest to him truly understand. Here’s a look into the man through the eyes of his family and loved ones:
1. Family Values First
Duma Boko’s first cousin, Nomsa Gosenyaphuti, shares that he grew up surrounded by strong family ties. “We grew up together, and he was a happy child, always laughing and singing,” she recalls. Family has always been a crucial part of his identity.
2. Respect Runs Deep
Edward Boko, Duma’s uncle, emphasizes that respect is the foundation of Duma’s character. “Even now, with all his education and achievements, he still defers to me on many matters with pure cultural respect,” he says.
3. Nicknamed “Rra Melao”
As a child, Duma was called “Rra Melao” (Mr. Law) by his family because he was obsessed with doing the right thing and had a deep sense of justice. Even as a youngster, he couldn’t stand dishonesty.
4. Natural Leader
His cousin, Nomsa, was not surprised when he pursued a career in law and politics. Duma’s integrity and leadership qualities were evident from a young age.
5. Family-Loving Boy
Kaone Boko, Duma’s wife, describes him as a devoted family man. “He is a wonderful father. I wouldn’t have chosen a better man to raise our kids with,” she says.
6. Quiet Demeanor at Home
While Duma is known for his fiery speeches, Zandile Boko, his aunt, describes him as a quiet and kind person who has always shown her love and care. “He and his wife even feed and look after me,” she shares.
7. Stoic and Patient
Zandile fondly remembers Duma’s incredible patience. “Even during tough times, he would face the situation calmly and offer an encouraging word, ‘Kuzolunga’ (It will be okay),” she says.
8. Deep Faith
Kaone reveals that her husband’s unwavering faith is one of his most striking qualities. “He doesn’t draw from himself but from a source bigger than himself. He is deeply surrendered to God.”
9. The Generous Giver
Duma’s generosity is legendary, sometimes to the frustration of his wife. Kaone shares a memorable incident where he gave the last P200 they had to a woman in need, even when their family was struggling. “I was angry at first, but I’ve learned to appreciate the value of true giving,” she admits.
10. Resilient and Unyielding
Described as resilient and unbreakable, Duma does not shy away from battles, whether personal or political. Kaone has seen him withstand hunger, harassment, and vilification without backing down.
11. Principled to a Fault
His wife acknowledges that Duma’s principles are unyielding. “He stands by his beliefs no matter how big the opponent. It’s a quality that makes him both admirable and, sometimes, frustrating.”
12. Drama Club Star
As a student at Madiba Secondary School, Duma excelled in drama and was known for his captivating stage presence. He also shone as a debater, impressing peers with his command of language.
13. A Story of Faith and Destiny
Former law partner Oteng Motlhala recalls Duma’s belief in a higher power. He says Duma always had unwavering faith, especially in tough situations, and a philosophy that “if it’s meant to be, it will be.”
14. Unshakeable Self-Confidence
According to Motlhala, Duma’s defining trait is his immense self-confidence. “He always believed in his abilities as a lawyer and leader, and he believed in the people around him,” he says.
15. Support from His Father
An influential moment in Duma’s life came from overhearing his father assure a client that Duma would win her court case. This moment gave him an immeasurable boost of self-belief.
16. Loyal Friend
Shadreck Kgosi, a former classmate and military man, recalls Duma’s brilliance and leadership in school. They shared memories of playing sports and even had a childhood fight by the stream, which remains a funny footnote in their history.
17. Only Ever Fought Once
That fight with Shadreck was the only one Duma ever had, and he proudly says his undefeated record is still intact.
18. Passionate Public Speaker
From school debates to the courtroom, Duma’s love for performance and words has been a consistent theme. His former partner Motlhala highlights his incredible oratory skills as a lawyer.
19. An Optimistic Soul
Duma’s motto is one of hope and faith, with his signature line “I chill in hellfire” symbolizing his optimistic and sanguine temperament, even when things get tough.
20. A Legacy of Giving
Duma’s generous spirit has left an indelible mark on his children, who have learned to value the power of giving. Kaone proudly notes that the lessons in generosity have shaped their family.
Through the eyes of his family, Duma Boko emerges as a man defined by faith, integrity, resilience, and a deep commitment to those he loves. Beyond the public persona lies a figure who has always been driven by the values instilled in him from childhood, remaining humble and kind even as he stands poised to lead a nation.
