10 Things Smart Girls Do Differently When They’re Dating

Because smart, sexy, fun, funny & professionally successful young women can also have confidence with men! Gone are those typical Setswana ways of men always dictating how a relationship goes. Smart women take the lead, and enjoy romance to the fullest, the following are tips to help you rejuvenate your love life. Power to you!

1. They’re not afraid to tell you when they like you. If they think this thing has a chance, they’re not going to sit back and play coy and always wait for you to make the first move. They’re going to be straight-up with you, and you can do with that what you want.

2. They don’t play games. There’s no “wait two hours to text back” guidelines that they believe they have to follow. Smart girls do what they want when they want, because they don’t have time for arbitrary dating rules.

3. They’re not looking to be a trophy wife. The idea of playing backseat to their companion is nauseating to an ambitious girl. They’re looking for someone who is going to be their partner, not their leader.

4. They won’t ask you to choose between them and your other priorities, because they’re too busy having priorities of their own.

5. A good conversation in their eyes doesn’t revolve around how much money you make or how successful you are. They’re more interested in hearing what makes you tick, what inspires you, what gets your blood flowing, and what you’re passionate about.

6. They know that sometimes they have a hard time opening up in the beginning. They’re used to being in control, so when they’re not, it’s a little disorienting. But they enjoy the challenge of trying to get better, so it’s something they’re always keen to work on.

7. They’re not going to wait forever. They’ll let you know, one way or another, that they like you. They’re never in a rush to jump into a relationship, but they’re also practical about where they are in their lives and when it’s time to move on. If you like them, do something about it.

8. They’re less worried about a fairy-tale romance and more concerned with finding someone who will simply make them happy. They’re not preoccupied with a huge diamond ring, an over-the-top wedding, and a ridiculous love story they can tell their friends. They just want to be with someone who will love them for who they are, and never ask them to stop following their dreams.

9. Their relationship will not take up 100% of their life, but they will put 100% into their relationship. It’s important to smart girls to have other priorities and things going on outside of their relationship. But that doesn’t mean they won’t give it their all when it comes to being happy with someone.

10. They’re not looking for a challenge, but they are looking for someone to challenge them. They’re not interested in the chase or winning the game. But they’re interested in being with someone who’s going to challenge them to be better and to grow every day.